Anxiety can be stimulated
by a number of situations but fundamentally we become anxious when we
feel that we have too much to handle at once. So anxiety is partly externally
triggered but also internally fostered. It is impossible to be anxious
if you are relaxed so it is when we experience tension that we often
become anxious.
So what causes tension in our lives. It can be a
number of things, the normal pressures caused by everyday life such
as financial and domestic issues as well as more dramatic and unexpected
changes in the pattern of our lives such as bereavement or relationship
breakdown which can produce enormous stress.
It is important to discover your own individual
stressors. Make a list of your stressors under the headings:
Emotional, Mental and Physical.
An example of each would be
Emotional: feeling
a lack of self-confidence
Mental: having too
much studying to do at one
Physical:
being run-down and under-par
Keep a diary for a week and note down the times
when you feel most stressed.
Is the morning the worst time or do you lie awake
at night worrying?